Fine, we have all seen that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is necessarily true.

At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy compared to a nice guy.

I think there are other personality dimensions involved that maybe bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.

Bad boys tend to be less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I think that it would be these characters that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little aloof, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am interested in them or just being polite.

That is what sets me away from a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of meeting men who flatter them.

Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has an entertaining conversation with them without saying a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also remember that women have different personalities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique varies from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well choose a guy who talks a little awful and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see no matter what you are like there is somebody for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet people like that. So irrespective of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and unique to the women you encounter and you will be successful.

One of the toughest things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are unexciting there are women who are absolutely compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the party.

The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, try to act differently and they are not being true, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will notice that there are people who will choose you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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